I am a dominant woman, aka Domme, aka Dominatrix and a few other choice titles. I am not superior, wiser, or more intelligent that anyone else. I am just Dominant. That is how I choose to express my sexuality. I love submissive men. There is not a more beautiful sight in this world to me, than to see a man kneeling at my feet. The beauty is the gift of himself that he gives to me. The complete and total trust, that he has in me, to not harm or hurt him in any fashion. Submission from a man is not something I demand, I want it to be freely given to me, and I cherish it for the gift that it is. Submission is the purest and most beautiful gift a man could give me.

I want a man to submit because they have complete trust in me and will only dominate them if they allow it. I do not like weak men. To be mine, one has to be physically and emotionally strong. The beauty and the gift lies in the struggle within himself, to give up societal norms, stereotypes, and taboos, and be guided and molded by my hand, a female hand. In return what they get from me is my love, deep respect, protection and loyalty, and the fulfillment of their greatest fantasies. I will not inflict pain or do anything that we both do not find mutually pleasurable nor want. I want complete control over my submissives mind, body and heart, and this cannot be achieved unless there is trust. I once read somewhere that you have to go into yourself to submit. To top you have to go into the other person. It's an enviable position to lose yourself and know that you are protected. And my submissive is protected, cherish, and very loved by me.

Our bond is greater than any, that either of us have ever had. He is my friend, my lover, my confidant, my soulmate, my submissive and my complete partner, the other half that makes a whole. I am not always dominant with him. Sometimes he is my strength, when I need a little lift up. He makes my days happy with the total and complete gift of himself he gives me.