BDSM an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sado-Masochism Here are some writings, musings and general info about the lifestyle we both cherish and practice. We hope that some of these might be helpful, informative and fun. If it is not original writing, every effort has been made to credit the author(s). It is our hope that you enjoy the variety of opinions as they also reflect the diversity of the lifetyle itself. Note: This page undergoes heavy construction and only the underlined are linked yet. Many of the others are works in progress and we do hope you will come back and check them out.

Submissives Creed	To have a slave
slaves-O/our perspective	Some thoughts on D/s relationships
Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC)	Physical Dangers and Safety in BDSM
Emotional Dangers and Safety in BDSM	The Pleasure of the Pain: Why some people need S&M Psychology Today September/October 1999 By Marianne Apostolides
BDSM definitions and glossary	12 Steps to submission
Dominant Man	Dominant Woman
BDSM Common Sense	The Dom/mes Creed
Trust	The BDSM Emblem
The Master	Ten rules for being human
Common mistakes newcomers to BDSM make	Submissive woman
Submissive versus Slave	The reality of training as a slave
Sub space	Dom/me space
Floggers--a primer	What to ask your potential Dom/me
How to buy a whip--a primer	Some common commands and rules for submissives
Qualities of a good Dominant	Qualities of a good submissive
Submissive Rights	Nine degrees of Submission
Under the lash--a primer(1)	Under the lash--a primer(2)
Negotiations-Questions to ask	Seven Pillars of Dominance